Author: Philip Weiss

From mom:

I had trouble Thurs. opening the rotary cutter. I had to use two hands to push the spring loaded button. I have had trouble pushing the button on the Sonicare but I thought that was because mine is old and the contacts might be a problem on that button. Andy’s gave up the ghost so we got him a new one. Anyway my typing days might be much less in number than I am hoping. See you Monday.

So my mother has a problem. And while talking with the respiratory therapist with her today, it occurred to me that someone in my crowd might be able to help in a way that won’t occur to the therapist. When I ran the idea past him, he said to go for it because he’s into territory that he hasn’t covered before.

Here’s the problem: my mom can’t close her mouth or lips. In order for her CPAP machine to work, either she needs to use a full face mask or be able to keep her mouth closed. The full face mask isn’t working for other reasons, for which we’re looking for solutions.

But in the other case, I was wondering if anyone in this crowd would have any experience making rubber or latex face masks that could be altered to keep her moth closed? Or if there’s anyone who has experience with breathe play that could have other suggestions? Any solution would be run by and approved by her doctors, so please don’t hold back responding because you are afraid that it might be dangerous. Anything we finally decide on will be doctor-approved before put into use.

If you know of someone who might have such expertise, I love to be put into contact with them.

I beat my mom in two games of gin rummy today, even though I think it’s the first time I’ve ever played.

You might think that it’s cruel to win at cards against a dying person. To you who think that, I say nyah nyah nyah! You are dying too!

I am home. I am drinking a cold Coca-Cola. Ocean Shores was pretty decent, considering hanging out with 7 to 10 other people is not exactly my bag. I spent some quality time with the family. We didn’t kill anyone, particularly me. My family likes Erin. I like Erin too. I got some sun. And I got 5 books read.

Oh, and I didn’t get sunburned yesterday.

Now, what to do for the rest of my birthday.

I sat out on the beach in the sun for about 2 hours today without a
shirt. Can you guess what happened?

I got a few pictures of a bald eagle though no closeups cause a gull
started dive bombing him before I got near and he flew off to save his
neck.

Made chicken adobo for dinner. Decent, but too salty and I
overcompensated for my undercooked chicken from a couple of nights
ago.

Heading home tomorrow. Should be back in the afternoon.

The weather continues to be mostly dry and cloudy. Last night I was
nailed by a good allergy attack, but the loratadine seems to be
working. Joe wants to rent scooters but the idea of riding scooters
up and down a flat beach on a scooter doesn’t appeal to me. I do want
to explore the nearby state park and recreation area. Yesterday I
drove my mom and Erin to the beach for them to fly kites. I did as
well for a bit but there was little breeze so I sat back and watched.
Got a few pictures of Erin being cute blowing bubbles. She looks
particularly fetching today.

I’ve started on “the coroner’s lunch”. I’m really liking it. Gonna
try to finish it and get a good ways into “the vengeful virgin” today.
After that it’ll be only the thick slow books.

About half our troop is off on a guided horse ride down the beach.
Not my thing, so I’m sitting on the dunes reading “walla walla suite”.
I took a few photos as they began their journey. Jason and Joe decided
to be the coolest and wear helmets. This part of the beach saddens
me. I can see more vehicles than people, though a bit to the south a
moderate number of kites dot the sky. To me a beach is little fun if
it resembles a parking lot.

The go-karts earlier were fun. Erin got some good photos of me and
Jason. He’s got the dale earnhardt sunglasses look going on though
not really the killer instinct. Amanda had that.

Joe wants to ride scooters on the beach but that looks pretty
uninteresting to me. I do want to do some canoeing though. Waiting
for a sunny day for that.

Jason was unable to find a strip club.

Today is overcast, chilly and a bit breezy. Still it’s relaxing
weather. I’m sitting on the back porch about to read Jhumpa Lahiri’s
“the namesake”.

The deer ate most of the leaves from the bush we chopped down. It was
blocking the dock. Three baby deer (fawns?) And two adults.

Relations with the family have been good. Usually things can get
testy and there is still time. But we’ve stuck to making fun of each
other and they’ve let me mostly hang back. I mostly want to relax
while they are the types to want to do things. I do love them and
this is a nice place to hang.

Jason and Amanda get here tonight. Tomorrow will be a day of doing
stuff I’m sure. He’s better at getting me interested iin
non-relaxing things.

Not reading LJ (this is posted via email) but I am checking the email
and text messages.